it’s kring-kring

 She’s my best friend when  I was in high school until now, I used to call her “amoh” that’s our way of calling each other. She always send me text messages that will enlightened my mind.hehe want to read it?

I’ll share it to you”, by the way her full name is Krisna Mea Cerbas.

I maybe sweet, but sometimes makulit, that can somehow irritate you. But that’s just my way of making you feel you’re someone…. I want to be my friend and I care for.

It’s hard to live alone.

It’s harder to choose someone you can love.

But the hardest part of living is…. Is to admit that you have fallen in love with someone you didn’t plan to love.

 Life’s unfair scenario:

It’s when people assume that j\know you even without trying to know you and judge you from your actions without knowing the reason behind it.

I love sleeping!

Wanna know why?

Well it’s because sleeping is my only way of escaping from the pain which I can’t bear when I’m awake.

Sometimes we have to give up one wonderful thing just to make everything all right.

We have to bleed ALONE for somebody to smile we need to let those tears flow JUST to save the tears of others. We have to break our OWN hearts to feel somebody else’s emptiness and there are times were we have to give up our OWN happiness, just to rescue someone else’s burden. So now, can everybody tell me where is the JUSTICE in love?

It was NEVER fair and it will NEVER BE.

Pag ako namatay na, gusto ko lahat ng paborito kong gamit kasama sa kabaong ko at pati phone ko, para pag na miss mo ako, txt mo na lang ako tapos, malay mo, unlimited ako, txt-txt  tayo.

I met a crazy person and I ask her, “What is greater, heart or brain?” he answered me laughing, “I lost my brain because of love, but I lost my love because I followed my brain.

Sometimes I want to let the hands of the clock to stopped I’m happy. I want to hide the hour glass just tomake myself believe that moments would not end. But I never did such, for I realized, there are also those who wanted the hands of the clock to move. For every strike of it would mean a little recovery from pains for those who had bad memories in the past and wishes that the hands of the clock will tick faster.

Do you know why there are people who had a bad dream experience in love but they show to you it’s like nothing they never show you they cry simply because there are tears in the heart that never reaches the eye.

Time maybe so fast that we can’t guess how long are we going to be friends but even if time pushes us apart one thing I assure u “YOU’VE ALWAYS BEEN A PART OF ME!” No good byes….

If you fall down, “no one” will catch you!

If you hurt “no one” will care for you!

Because “no one” needs you! And “no one” loves you!

Ooh, by the way.

My name is “No one”

the CHARLENE i know.

 There is a lot of Charlene in this world. But this Charlene that I know is different from the other Charlene in this world. She is “Charlene Severo”, she is the girlfriend of my best friend Rhino Sursano since high school. Why she became different? Because she always sends messages to me, everyday she doesn’t forget to send me a message. Even though we’re not that close but, she always remember me! As her friend I will share to you those messages that she sent to me. But I’ve erased some of the text messages in my phone coz, it always make my phone full in memory. These are the text messages:

·        Sometimes when they ask me to stay, I feel important, but then, at the back of my mind, I ask myself. Am I wanted? Or just needed.

 ·        Closeness of friendship doesn’t need every minute conversation. As long as you find time to smile remembering crazy moments together. It’s the closest thing ever.

 ·        When life gets difficult, when the tasks become tiring, when you are about to give up, always remember that the snail got to Noah’s ark inch by inch just to survive.

 ·        When you have done something wrong, admit it and be sorry. No one has ever choked to death from swallowing his pride.

 ·        Distancing has only two reasons: either you hate that person or you’re too scared to fall completely for that person.

 ·        You learn to grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Always say how you feel. Be you and be okay with it. LOVE and ENJOY LIFE>

 ·        Question: Can Love really last a lifetime?

         Answer: Scientist found out that romantic love involves chemical changes in the brain that last 12-18 months. After that, you and your partner are on your own.

        “Love can absolutely last for a lifetime as desired to be maintained. Meaning, it’s both your choice. Bottom line: IT WILL LAST, if you know how to commit.

 ·        Friendship doesn’t die just because of distance so even if you’re not here I hope you know I’m keeping you with me in my heart coz you’ll always be A FRIEND OF MINE even through the miles.

 ·        Sometimes I pretend to be happy, be a joker, naughty out loud so that nobody would know what’s really inside, but at the end of the day, I always find myself al alone, encountering the crucial truth, that I am too broken inside and that not even million laughter’s can take it away.

 ·        By the time you realize what your parents said was right……you already have a kid who begins to think you are wrong.

 Thank you cha! For these inspiring and funny messages that you have sent to me. Even though there are times that I got irritated with some of those messages. Thank you friend.

CEBU SEO CONTEST

What’s up with this contest?

I’m just a new blogger. Actually this is the first time I engaged in an online contest. CEBU SEO CONTEST is one way of merging blogger all over the country it is not about the prize that we could get from this contest but the fun of getting on the top and the experience.

 To understand more about the contest visit http://www.phblogger.net and see what the prizes are, you could win.

 Hey Pinoy blogger! Want to be a part of this contest, CEBU SEO CONTEST? Join Now!! To share your ideas with this contest and met some people (blogger) all over the country. Be part of this CEBU SEO CONTEST not just for the prize but the experience in joining this kind of contest. Be one of us! Pinoy blogger.

Honesty is an Investment

A person’s dignity is preserved if he shows his integrity in words, in action and even in his thoughts – where carefulness is exercised so as not to hurt another’s feelings.

            In our present world where a survival is a problem, we have to be dependable, credible, and responsible – in order to be heard and followed.

            One word, one value, is needed to create order, remove tensions ad promote relationships that can give strength and confidence; this word is “HONESTY”. Be true to yourself. Be true to others. Never create dark clouds of distrust that will envelop your personality and erase everything that is good in you. Doubt is likely to make you appear less of a person, much less, a child of God. We cannot blame people for looking at us negatively if we lie and we cheat. There are white lies which are permissible and morally wrong. We cannot call blue what actually is red. We want people to believe in us, don’t we? We want them to give us their trust and so, we must try our very best to be trustworthy. What we sow, we reap. What we invest, we withdraw.

            Speaking of investment, I know of one bank whose manager is irreproachable; a bank which never grows bankrupt; a bank which is open all the time. It doesn’t need an E-card; it doesn’t need any other person than the depositor can withdraw. This bank is unique. It has no teller. What makes it more unique is that the whole deposit can be withdrawn only at the end of the depositor’s earthly life.

            Isn’t it heaven the best bank and God, the most wonderful Manager?

                                                                                                                                                              –Candle Light 

TOO SHY TO SAY “HI”?

If you’re alone time has turned and stretched into lonely weeks, months or even years, then it’s time to take your fabulous self out that shell.

            While some guys find it difficult to break away fro the barkada to spend some time alone, others might just have opposite dilemma. Often labeled as “LONERS”. If you’re a shy violet yourself but have had enough of sitting alone at the mush table and spending your weekends at home, then it’s time you to stopped being a hermit! Crawling out of your shell through these anti shy tips is the step in getting rid of your social phobia.

SMILE

Those pearly-whites are not just meant for chewing, but also for drawling in people. A smile lights up to your face, making you exude a friendly aura. Also, it forces to make eye contact, an important point in making good conversation. A cheerful-looking person is definitely nicer to talk to (and to look) than a grumpy-looking one. If a smile is not returned, don’t take it personally. Take heart! There are others who’ll gladly return your smile.

POWER TO REMEMBER

Have you experience someone, running up to you, yelling your name, but for the life of you, can’t remember hers? It’s even more disastrous if you addressed her in a wrong name, and she just shuffles away, either embarrassed or insulated. Bad memory drives away possible friendships. Practice good memory by remembering the names of the people you’ve met, or go further by remembering something about them. So the next time you bump into them at the Mall, you can confidently makes small talk. ”Hi Enoc! Do you still play badminton?” also, keep a calendar, where you’ve marked all your friends birthdays. Everyone likes to be remembered, especially on his or her special day.

SHARE YOURSELF

Yes, you are worth sharing! Keeping your talents, thoughts and love all to yourself won’t amount to much be generous and spread the wealth of “youness’. Why not speak up in class often? Or lend your hidden talent by volunteering in the school program? Someone once said, “Eating brownies makes us happy; sharing brownies makes us joyful.” Sharing makes difference.

BE PART OF THE ACTION

Watching things happen from the sidelines is pretty safe….but also boring! Join a club or an activity that interest you; the possibilities are endless! Pitch in your community’s clothes drive for flood victims or sign up for that dance class you’ve been dying (but too shy) to take all these months. Whatever you choose to do, you’re sure to do if either people who share your interests. Remember, friendships start from common wavelengths!

 BE OPEN   

Oftentimes, we are afraid  of the unfamiliar;  and getting rid of your shyness involves doing unfamiliar stuff like making the first move. Being open means choosing to live beyond your fears, and letting other people into your own world. This way you’ll get to know yourself better through them. Take a chance! No one can really win friendships without a bitter sweet combination of success and failure. Remember the saying “triumph is ‘try’ with an ‘umph!’

How to Gain Friends

I am very thankful for having good and true friends. “My Friends have been a part of my

Life for a long time and I value them a lot. They’re like family to me!” So I like to share to you these great ideas on how to win friends.

1.)   BE YOURSELF

This means accepting yourself. And if other people don’t like you, it’s OK. You can’t force everybody.

2.)   BE COOL

Don’t get irritated easily when people tease you. Most of the time, they mean nothing by it. Learn to laugh at yourself. Everybody likes someone with a sense of humor.

3.)   LEARN TO SAY THE RIGHT THING TO THE RIGHT TIME

No one wants to be with someone who complains all the time, or tries to give advice when it’s not wanted. Learn when to speak and when to lend an ear. Sometimes it’s all about timing.

4.)   BE FRIENDLY

It won’ hurt to be the first one to say “Hi”, even to someone you’ve just met. Soon, you may find your acquaintances turning into friends.

5.)   LOVE YOURSELF

This means recognizing your assets and sharing talents without other people. You can’t expect people to like you if you don’t even like yourself.

6.)   LEARN TO FORGIVE

If someone does you wrong, keep in mind that everybody makes mistakes. Forgive and forget. No one wants to be around someone who constantly makes them feel guilty.

7.)   BE TRUE AND HONEST TO YOUR FRIENDS

If you’re the type who lies and makes stories, you’ll eventually find yourself with out friends.

We Teenagers Need Privacy, Too

Yes, we need some personal space, too. It’s not that we are shutting you out- it’s just part and parcel of the growing up process. The need for privacy stems to our need to discover our sense of self and guess what—YOU MUST RESPECT IT!

                        Signs that we are asking for some privacy.

• In five to seven-year-olds: They don’t want to be bathed or dressed
• In older kids like nine-year-olds: They start to collect their own things and become possessive of these.
• In pre-teeners: They may ask for their own phone in their bedrooms
• In teenagers: We become secretive about what we are doing, where we want to go, whom we spent hour on the phone with the previous night.

Ways to show to us that you respect our need for our own space

• For five to seven-year-olds: Put up one of those pop-up tents in the living room or their own room. This is a very gentle way for them to separate themselves from mom and dad.
• For eight to eleven-year-olds: Treasures chests (that can be locked) to hold all their collectibles and little stashes of cards and other doo-dads will be a big hit!
• For teenagers: Our very own phone is great way to show your respect our need for private conversation. However, do set rules on how long were allowed to use the phone especially on weekdays.

Lesson about Pain and Illness:

1. What is Pain? – “First Love”
2. What triggers pain? –“Memories”
3. What can heal pain?-“Time”
4. What lengthens pains?-“Martyrdom”
5. What is the initial sign of pain?-“Tears”
6. What is the primary defense mechanism of pain?-“Denial”
7. What is the primary stressor of pain?-“Theme Song”
8. How can you remove pain?-“Let Go”
9. How can you forget pain?-“Move On”
10. What is the history of pain?-“Break Up”

“BECAUSE WE HAVE A HEART THAT LOVES!”

9 Hardest Times of Our life

1. Being questioned when you yourself don’t understand.
2. Proving to be innocent when you are not.
3. Trying to forget something you know you never will.
4. Admitting you are afteryou know yu never will.
5. Debating with yourself.
6. Accepting the fact that some things are not meant to be.
7. Trying to understand when you can’t.
8. Realizing that you’ve been tricked after you’ve given your whole trust.
9. Parting and letting go of someone who made you believed you’re in love.

How Do Sweet Text Messages Affect You?

1. Some text messages are sweet enough to conquer someone’s heart.
2. Some people use it for courting future love.
3. Some text messages make you believe some things might happen best when infact there is none.
4. It may be misinterpreted and hurt someone without any malice from the sender.
5. It can tell lies which may ruin the best of relationships.

Whoah, some bitter facts about texting which can be true. But why do people keep on sending sweet text messages?

Well, maybe they want to entertained and inspired people or they to flatter and deceive them.

So unromantic but we must admit someone of these text messages are not true. Too bad, some are blind and pretend to be innocent when we are not.

VICTORY

Jubilation always follows victory. This happens at the end of an event when praises and awards are given. The distinct honor given to the victorious always makes the heart of the recipient fell great and important.

            It is normal to react excitedly when something is won, especially after a tough competition. Before any contest starts, every participant is eager to invest everything that he has and knows, in order to achieve the coveted prize.

            This is true in all phases of our life. We want to prove our ability and our worth. We try to put our best foot forward and think positively while strengthening our will and our desire to win.

            Life in this world is, in itself, a series of competitions. From childhood to adulthood, from home, from school, to community, to the outside world, there is a constant struggle for perfection, for getting the best out of any activity, for attaining one’s dream of winning over material, physical, moral, and spiritual challenges. Sometimes, the victories we achieve in the arena of worldly competitions become moral and spiritual challenges. We must be careful not miss our sense of direction which is the home or our Heavenly Father.

There are many obstacles in the field of triumph. We have to identify them and keep them at bay by our spiritual values. Pride, jealousy, greed, and selfishness are the usual challenges in the life of the victor.

            It is good to remember that everything in this world is temporary-transient. POWER. WEALTH. INFLUENCE. POPULARITY. They are good but if we are not careful, they will stepping stones to our eternal damnation. We have to accept that no matter how good and adept we are – no matter how popular a champion we have become, we have our weak points; our failings; because we are only human. Also, when pass out of this world, we do not want to leave unpleasant memories behind us, we do not cover our face when we come face to face with GOD in time of judgment.

            Let us be happy in time of victory. Let our hearts swell with joy; but in the process, let it swell with gratitude to the Lord, fill it with praises and thanksgiving to the Almighty, Who, without His blessing would make our dreams vanish in smoke.

            God is the only Giver. Without Him, where would we be?                                                             —-Candle Light

FRIENDS TO KEEP

People differ in almost all aspects of life: in beliefs, principles, behavior, aims, and decisions. They have all different strengths as well as weaknesses.

            But somehow, in our journey while searching for the true essence of life, we find someone who is willing to accept that difference within our humanity. That is …… “A FRIEND”.

            The mere fact of being with him means everything to us. He is one of the reasons why we still go on. Smiling on our way even if we know that the road ahead is full of uncertainty. Though he doesn’t accommodate all our needs, he will still be available for us to be able to approach him easily.

            He is a family whom we can share life’s ups and downs. His action always shows care, sincerity, understanding, support, and love. No matter what happens, he never leaves our side. He cries when we are sad, he laughs when we smile of happiness, he is hurt when we are depressed, happy when we succeed.

            A FRIEND…. A friend is one of the greatest treasures that we can ever have. So, we must keep it and handle it with care.

Love’s Psychological Overtures

For us, LOVE is familiar in word and in varied definitions. It is such a very common and overused word (or most often misused). To the point, it couldn’t be out in our daily life. People keep thinking and reach for the real meaning of love.

            But what keeps up savoring that power in our hearts? Many, right? They come from different ways. Love may begin in friendship and end up in a promise. Many psychologists and philosophers say words cannot be exactly defined with mere words. As the song goes, “Love is like an ocean, full of conflict, full of pain…”

            It’s hard to understand. It seems that no one is exempted not to experience the feeling of obsession. Because of love, others are hurt leaving a scar, but for others, it’s a treasure that will last forever.

            Love most often starts with a relationship with healthy roots that cannot be destroyed. To choose a lifetime partner, you should know the weaknesses of each other. But what we can see in our generation is “short time love affair”. This kind of relationship doesn’t have the presence of love between partners. It can easily be broke because the bond is weak. Jealousy is fake without real concern to one another.

            Love must be meaningful and filled with happy moments. If we only know how to find the true essence of love, we can cherish the every bit of it. We may search its mysteries in the vast horizon; we may find its real meaning in our hearts. If your heart beats with clear untold story in it, you can say how meaning LOVE is.

                                                                                                                                                                                     —PNHS Hilltop 

Conquering Clutter

As times goes by, we tend to accumulate a lot of clutter in our homes. Many times, dealing with clutter can be overwhelming. Here are five tips to beat your household mess.

• Start Small. Tackle the most urgent clutter- usually the bills, letter, and mail. Set aside an hour each day and go drawer by drawer.
• Focus on one area at a time. Toss items that belong somewhere else into a box and return them to the correct place later on. This way, you can finish one are at a time and not get distracted with clutter that belongs to another area of the house.
• Give yourself a target date to finish an area. For example, a kitchen could take up to 3 days. Break up the big task into daily tasks to make it more manageable.
• Think logically. Items used daily should be easily accessible. Bed linen can be stored under the bed. Towels can be stored in overhead cabinets in the bathroom. Rarely used items like Christmas décor should be stored up high, in not –so-easy to reach places.
• Sort by type and label. Have different boxes and sort out your things by type. Label them so it is easier to remember where you stored the item. If you haven’t used certain items in years, maybe it’s time to give them away.

Imperfection

Some people expect me to be “perfect” but i’m not……

I have my mistakes, weaknesses and fears but i’m so contended for whatever life I have now and it doesn’t matter  where I came from, my title, or family name.

It’s always my dignity as a person that counts. Others may see me as a STONE not a GEM and I don’t give a damn.

I know who I am..

How I care for people I love. 

What I think and what I feel.

Me, myself and I…”ENOC (Mr. E)”  not perfect but JUST THE WAY  I WANT IT!

                                                                                                                                                                                            ____ Mr. E”,